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Starting Out, Again: When One Door Closes...
Losing your first job can bring both heartache and opportunity
By Diana Ransom, From
The Wall Street Journal Online
Losing a job for the first time can be an anxiety-laden milestone for
twentysomethings. But it can also be an opportunity to rethink your
course, and possibly make changes, before you've proceeded very far on a
career path.
A job loss in March was a "bittersweet" experience for 27-year-old
Erin Suhy, who had been working as a development assistant for a
nonprofit organization. "I lost income and the potential to work in a
field that I respect," she says, but "the job wasn't challenging and it
made me miserable."
Since then, the New York resident has worked on and off doing
administrative work and is currently collecting unemployment insurance
while considering post-graduate certificate programs in Web design.
She's also thinking about moving. "This time has given me the
opportunity to think about what I really want out of life," she says.
However, the worst part of being unemployed is feeling insecure, she
says, and constantly wondering "am I making the right decisions?"
Twentysomethings often agonize over every career move. "They feel
like their choice has to be momentous," says Larry Root, a professor of
social work at the University of Michigan. And when a job doesn't work
out, he says, it "can be hard psychologically," leading to low
self-esteem, mental stress and feelings of inadequacy.
But young people in this position should remember that it's not
unusual to switch careers -- not just jobs -- several times before
finally settling down, say career consultants and counselors.
Try to not feel discouraged if you wind up unemployed. Instead, use
this time wisely to get back in the game. Here are some tips:
Unemployment Insurance
While you look for a new job, you may be eligible to replace some of
your income via your state's unemployment insurance benefits. The length
of time and the benefit levels vary from state to state, as do
eligibility rules. On average, you can collect for 26 weeks and replace
perhaps 55% of your former income, up to a specified dollar amount. In
Virginia, for example, the maximum is $330 a week.
One frustration: the payment based on your last job could be greater
than some job offers you receive.
Remember that unemployment insurance is taxed as regular income, just
like salary, so come April 15 you may get a big tax bill too. You should
either deposit a portion of each unemployment check in a savings account
or request that your state's unemployment-insurance agency withhold tax.
For a link to all the relevant state agencies, go to
workforcesecurity.doleta.gov and click on the map of the U.S.
Get Feedback
Kelly Duncan, executive director of the South Dakota Counseling
Association, recommends asking your former employer for feedback on your
performance. Find out if there were things you didn't do to fulfill the
employer's needs and ask specifically how you could improve.
Also look critically at yourself, says Ms. Duncan, and ask: "Did I
lose my job because the company downsized or was it something I
personally had a part in?"
You may want to use this time to gain new skills or hone the ones you
have. Your local unemployment office will generally provide a minimal
amount of free job-search training as well as information about
educational programs. Many colleges and universities offer reasonably
priced continuing-education courses that you can take even if you aren't
enrolled in a degree program.
Stay Active
If you aren't able to find a job right away, keep busy. Look into
building up your portfolio if you're in a creative field, or volunteer
with an organization you could see yourself working with, says Elizabeth
McAloon, an executive career coach in New York.
"If people see you in action, they will think of you when something
comes up," she says.
-- November 28, 2006 |
